Surrendight - It's All You've Got!
March 30, 2018
My journey here on this earth has taught me that each ‘Life Experience’ I have, generates an emotion I feel (positive or negative) and leads me to a choice which creates a belief about my experience and a subsequent state of being that's attached to an outcome. Initial emotions are neither right nor wrong, they just are. I’ve learned there are only two choices to make when encountering any emotion. They are ‘Trust’ or ‘Control’ and because they’re polar opposites they cannot be chosen simultaneously. Therefore, the truth is, it's all about the CHOICE I CHOOSE to attach to the emotion I’ve encountered because of the life experience I've had.
What's Your Belief?
If I choose to humbly surrender and 'TRUST', the natural result of my belief (in trust) will be a state of peace, no matter the end result of my ‘Life Experience’. Being in a state of peace naturally opens the gateway for solutions to materialize at the right time and in the best way. If I choose to pridefully exercise my power to 'Control', then the natural result of my belief (in control) will be a state of disharmony which creates roadblocks and stop answers from manifesting and breeds ongoing troubles.
- Life Experience (happening) = Emotion (feeling) = CHOICE (act) + TRUST (belief) = Peace (state) = Solutions (outcome)
- Life Experience (happening) = Emotion (feeling) = CHOICE (act) + CONTROL (belief) = Disharmony (state) = Troubles (outcome)
I’ve learned being human means I have a tendency to create expectations around how, what, where and when solutions will materialize. I’ve discovered that if my expectations are obstructed or blocked I experience additional emotions, which are usually anger and frustration. Sadly, it's my pride that regularly stops me from recognizing I am the one who created the expectations that built the limiting walls which boxed in and closed off solutions from materializing. Resolution to this issue is of course to circle back again to surrender and fight for my right to choose to ‘Trust’ and actively come to the end of my self-created expectations.
The Surrendight Choice
I created a new word to describe the above process because when I searched the dictionary for a term that communicated the concept, I came up empty handed. ‘Surrendight’ is the combination of the two words, surrender and fight. One must surrender in order to trust, and must fight in order to surrender, hence the word ‘Surrendight’.
By definition ‘Surrendight' is the art of mastering surrender and fight simultaneously. It is to surrender what you have no power over and fight for the one thing you do have a choice in, that of course being the right to choose to ‘Trust’. It truly is an art because you’re utilizing your ability to war without weapons, clothed only by your determined belief that all you have in life is ‘Trust’ and if you choose it you have EVERYTHING! What choice will you make?
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by Bonnie Penner
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